1) Know Your “Why”

Ask yourself: What do you want your child’s name to reflect?

Common Themes to Consider

• Heritage — honor your ancestry or culture
• Strength — names linked to courage or resilience
• Uniqueness — rare but wearable choices
• Stage Presence — bold, charismatic sounds

How a Theme Helps

Having a guiding “theme” narrows options and keeps choices intentional. Want something cultural?
Explore names from your ancestry. Want a name with power? Look for meanings like “warrior,” “brave,” or “light.”
Prefer modern flair? Try surname-style first names or nature/place inspirations.

2) Play the Meaning Game

Names aren’t just sounds — many carry stories, symbols, and meanings that can make them feel extra special.

Quick Meaning Examples

• Leo = Lion
• Olivia = Olive tree
• Liam = Resolute protector
• Amelia = Work; industrious
• Ethan = Strong, firm
• Nora = Light
• Miles = Soldier; merciful
• Chloe = Blooming, fertile

Make Meanings Work for You

1. List 2–3 values you want the name to embody (e.g., light, courage, joy).
2. Search for names tied to those meanings across different styles.
3. Star the ones that “click” when you say them with your last name.

3) Sound & Flow Checks

Say-It-Out-Loud Test

Read the full name (first–middle–last) at normal speed. Aim for smooth cadence, not tongue twisters.
Mix syllables for rhythm (e.g., Emma Wren Alvarez 2-1-3; Noah James Carter 2-1-2).

Initials & Nicknames

Write the initials to avoid accidental words. Decide whether you like built-in nicknames
(e.g., Theodore → Theo, Madeline → Maddie) or nickname-light options (e.g., Blair, Grant).

Popularity vs. Uniqueness

Trendy names feel friendly and familiar; rarer names stand out. Choose the sweet spot that matches your taste
and community, and don’t be afraid to pair a classic with a modern middle.

4) Build Your Shortlist

Simple Three-Step Method

1. Create “Yes,” “Maybe,” and “No” lists independently (if naming with a partner).
2. Combine lists and keep overlaps plus strong “Maybe” options.
3. Test finalists with your surname and favorite middles for flow.

Quick Scorecard (1–5 each)

• Meaning & Personal Significance
• Sound with Last Name
• Spelling/Pronunciation Ease
• Nicknames You Like
• Initials & Monogram
• Popularity Fit (for you)

Trust the Smile Test

When a name consistently makes you smile — out loud, on paper, and in your heart — you’ve found your winner.
Enjoy the journey, and have fun naming that baby!